Just got a call from T. I’ve failed to mention the few times we’ve talked since the big discussion. He called to wish me a happy birthday, merry Christmas, and on New Years. And I’ve seen him online a few times and we’ve chatted a bit. But I haven’t seen him in person since we had the whole friends talk.
So anyway, he just called from work (he’s working a second job on the weekends now) and we talked for awhile. Then he asked if I wanted to go have drinks or something after he gets off work. He claims no alterior motive, just wants to see me. The weather is supposed to get pretty nasty tonight. It’s been below freezing all day and they are predicting rain/sleet/freezing rain/etc. So I said I really wasn’t planning to go anywhere if the weather is bad. He offered to come pick me up. Or just hang out over here for a little while.
I guess we’ll see how this whole ‘we’re just friends who used to have great sex’ thing goes. And why do I suddenly feel guilty about it? Like I know Dr Honeydew wouldn’t be comfortable with the idea of T and I hanging out. In fact, I worry that he’d be hurt by it. It’s not like we have some sort of exclusive relationship. Hell, it’s not like we have a relationship at all…we’ve just been moving in the direction of the idea of potentially having one.
Shit. This is such a weird place to be. Of course, if the whole ‘just friends’ thing with T holds true, I shouldn’t feel guilty. But I also know how we can be sometimes…
And whatever happens with T, do I talk to Dr Honeydew about it? I am the world’s most horrible liar, but at the same time, I don’t want to make him feel weird or worried or upset or anything either. I know he and I are officially still just the best of friends, but does the fact that we are interested in exploring other options justify my feeling guilty about seeing T tonight??